H and the team did a great job in worship. They practiced and carefully choose songs that the Chinese and English congregations can sing, at the same time teaching new songs. They are truly more than instrumental players. Their voices and sharings led people to focus on God and His greatness. I had a great time singing my heart out to God. Here are some of the songs that brought me before my Savior unhindered.
The speaker was wonderful and very practical. He had action item suggestions after every sermon. He talked about encouragement, forgiveness, integrity, and spiritual gifts. Every sermon is applicable, but my mind kept thinking about the sermon regarding encouragement. He opened with how encouragement is so important to everyone. Encouragement is second on the list of what human need from each other. Number one is a listening ear. Love and affection is way down on this list. This actually got my attention. Encouragement is the second most important thing in our interaction with people, yet it is not offer much at all. It's easier to crititize and complain than to encourage. Even in the secular whole, Charles Schwab stated the following about encouragement:
I consider my ability to arouse enthusiasm among men the greatest asset I possess. The way to develop the best that is in a man is by appreciation and encouragement.
I have yet to find the man, however exalted his station, who did not do better work and put forth greater effort under a spirit of approval than under a spirit of criticism.
Perhaps I was captivated by this because I was criticized by my boss for doing something I didn't think was inappropriate. Is it really true that if more encouragement is offered that people would perform better than criticism offered as constructive feedback? I don't know, but it doesn't hurt to try.
Four aspects of encouragement:
1. Complement the faithful
2. Comforting the hurting
3. Challenging the complacent
4. Exhorting the discouraged
Techniques for encouragement:
1. A spoken word
2. A written word
3. A listenigh ears
4. A gentle touch
5. Hospitality
6. A thoughful gift
7. Acts of service
8. Prayers
9. A warm smile
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